I recall attending a funeral about two years ago. It was the funeral of a mentor figure I respected so much. I recall how everyone had very heartwarming things to say about him. While I sat in my seat, I only wondered if he had heard even half of the things that were being said that day. I never even got to tell him how amazing he was. This experience marked a change in my life. From that day on, I decided to always make it a point of duty to let people know how grateful I am for their impact in my life. I previously used to appreciate people a lot in my mind; I would not voice out in detail to let them know how much their actions had impacted me, but I am learning to consciously appreciate people every day.
Mary Kay Ash said "Everyone wants to be appreciated, so if you appreciate someone, don’t keep it a secret" and Dr. Maya Angelou said "I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". So stop overthinking it. Send that text if you need to; slide into that DM if you have to; send that appreciation card if you have to; but all in all, let those who have impacted you in one way or another know how much their action meant to you.
Have a blessed week.
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I appreciate you wordsmith
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading 😊. I appreciate you too.
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